{"id":1994,"date":"2009-05-05T08:40:28","date_gmt":"2009-05-05T14:40:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/?p=1994"},"modified":"2009-05-05T08:40:28","modified_gmt":"2009-05-05T14:40:28","slug":"are-you-crying-theres-no-crying-in-movies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/?p=1994","title":{"rendered":"Are you crying?  There&#8217;s no crying in movies"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I watched Marley and Me last night.  <img src=\"http:\/\/ia.media-imdb.com\/images\/M\/MV5BNTU1OTg1MTc3OV5BMl5BanBnXkFtZTcwMjI0OTc5MQ@@._V1._SX93_SY140_.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><br \/>\nIt was Monday, and you know you can get one or more free movies from Redbox on Mondays, so when I ran through WalMart to buy fingernail polish remover, I picked up two movies.  Hubby&#8217;s out of town, so I watched it alone after the kids went to bed.  <\/p>\n<p>Cute Jennifer Aniston and Owen Wilson and a cute puppy!  It&#8217;s a happy movie, right?  Yes, it IS a happy movie about a family&#8217;s journey and a dog.  But then we get to the end, where that dog is getting old and feeble, and the family realizes that the dog is going to die.  I was crying&#8211;no, Sobbing.  Really.  Sobbing.  I was SO glad I saw that movie alone at home and not in a movie theater!  As I reached for another Kleenex, I laughed at myself for crying so much over a movie about a dog.  But, really, what did I think was going to happen?  I can&#8217;t even watch Where the Red Fern Grows anymore.  Even if I am flipping channels and see that it&#8217;s on (like it was the other night), the tears start to well up just when I realize which movie it it.  And I don&#8217;t even have a dog!  I did let my kids watch Where the Red Fern Grows, but I wouldn&#8217;t watch it with them.  I know my limits.<\/p>\n<p>But the love of pets is universal, isn&#8217;t it?  We&#8217;ve had our lovable little bird since before Cole joined our family.  At the end of the movie, when Jennifer Aniston says something about how they got Marley to prepare for a family, but they didn&#8217;t realize that when they got Marley they already were a family.  That just made me bawl even more!  Pets are wonderful additions to a family, but when a pet dies, it really is traumatic.  The other day I couldn&#8217;t find our beloved old bird (he had flown off somewhere and wasn&#8217;t responding to our whistling) and I started to panic.  He couldn&#8217;t be gone, could he?  We found him, and he&#8217;s still there, but he&#8217;s not going to live forever.<\/p>\n<p>I remember when I was on my mission, and I asked my parents about our dog, Butch.  How&#8217;s Butch? I wrote in a letter, and I noticed I didn&#8217;t get a response to my question.  Later, when I asked about it again, they told me that Butch had died.  There I was, off in a foreign country, sobbing about my dog, who had been gone for quite some time.  <\/p>\n<p>Yes, pets are an important part of a family, and we love them, and we grieve for them when they are gone.  Even if it&#8217;s just a movie.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I watched Marley and Me last night. It was Monday, and you know you can get one or more free movies from Redbox on Mondays, so when I ran through WalMart to buy fingernail polish remover, I picked up two movies. Hubby&#8217;s out of town, so I watched it alone after the kids went to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1994"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1994"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1994\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1999,"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1994\/revisions\/1999"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1994"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1994"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1994"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}