{"id":680,"date":"2007-10-05T16:21:12","date_gmt":"2007-10-05T22:21:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/2007\/10\/05\/its-his-decision\/"},"modified":"2007-10-05T16:21:12","modified_gmt":"2007-10-05T22:21:12","slug":"its-his-decision","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/?p=680","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s his decision"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>3:30 the phone rings.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 It&#8217;s Cole&#8217;s friend, asking for him.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 When I told him he had gone to a different friend to play, he mumbled something about the campout.<\/p>\n<p>Campout?\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 I ask, What campout?<\/p>\n<p>He mumbles something about a campout and that it&#8217;s probably too late, since they are supposed to be at the scout master&#8217;s house at 4:00.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 Then he tells me to hold on just a minute, and he puts his mom on.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 She asks me didn&#8217;t I know about the campout to Camp Floyd?\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 You know, the one they signed up for in the spring?\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 I&#8217;m wondering how I would know that.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 Probably on that note from the scout master in the middle of the summer that outlined a few months worth of things.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 Things I should have written on the calendar, but for some reason did not.<\/p>\n<p>So, I called Cole at his friend&#8217;s house, to see if he wanted me to rush over and get him and help him pack for this campout.<\/p>\n<p>No.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 He said.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 It&#8217;s too late, and I didn&#8217;t remember about it.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 He gives me all the reasons why he didn&#8217;t know, and that <em>I didn&#8217;t tell him<\/em> about it.<\/p>\n<p>I kind of lost it a tiny bit there in telling him that I can&#8217;t be responsible for telling him about every single SCOUT activity that he has.<\/p>\n<p>But he decided that he would rather not go this time.<\/p>\n<p>So, I need to let it be his decision, and let it be all right to miss out on this one thing.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 It&#8217;s his decision, right, and if he doesn&#8217;t want to do it, I can&#8217;t force him to do it.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 Even though I know it will be tons of fun, and every scout activity is always a good thing for them to do.<\/p>\n<p>But it&#8217;s not my decision.<\/p>\n<p>Ugh.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 Letting them grow up is hard.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>3:30 the phone rings.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 It&#8217;s Cole&#8217;s friend, asking for him.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 When I told him he had gone to a different friend to play, he mumbled something about the campout. Campout?\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 I ask, What campout? He mumbles something about a campout and that it&#8217;s probably too late, since they are supposed to be at the scout [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[8,11],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/680"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=680"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/680\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=680"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=680"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paige.ericksonfamily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=680"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}