The Trials of a Busy Mom

Month: August 2007 (Page 2 of 3)

Aw, shucks

I hate to post anything new, because then it will push down Ryan’s sweet post, and I don’t want to do that. Maybe I’ll print it out and hang it on the fridge, just to remind me that I’m loved. And thank you all for your sweet comments!

We DID have a fun anniversary, thank you very much.

It started with back to school night at our local elementary school. Who does a back to school night on Friday, I’d like to know. Our school. I took the girls to go and meet all their new teachers, and at every classroom I picked up papers and instructions (that I have yet to read) and signed up for WAY too much stuff that I’m sure I’ll forget about. I think I’m an assistant room mother for 1st grade, and I’ll be helping with the fall play in 6th grade, a spring party, a st. Patrick’s party, a halloween party and a Christmas party. And playground duty 3 times. And whatever else they sucked me into signing up for. I also had a sign up sheet in the gym where the PTA was doing their stuff. I’m hoping to get people to help with Reflections (which I’m in charge of–silly me), but when I left at 5:10, there was only one signature on my sign up sheet.

When we were done there, we picked up the other kids and Ryan, and dropped Megan off at a friend’s house, and took the rest of the kids to Grandma and Grandpa’s house in Spanish Fork. Megan had been invited to a “High School Musical 2 Party”, and didn’t want to miss it, so she slept over at a friend’s house and they went to the party together. And thank goodness for grandparents who will babysit!

Since the traffic was horrible all the way to Spanish Fork, we got a little later start than we had planned. We were hungry, so we went to the Cracker Barrel to eat dinner. I love that place, and we hadn’t been there in a long long time. We had some yummy food, and what do you know? That Cracker Barrel was celebrating an anniversary, too! 10 years in Springville. Isn’t that nice?

I had planned out several movies we could see, and Ryan chose Ocean’s 13. Since that movie didn’t start until 9:15, that gave us a little bit of time to do some shopping. I had a 30% off coupon for Kohl’s, and really wanted to see if there were any screaming bargains, so Ryan was a good sport and went along while I perused the clearance section until they closed at 9. Then we went to our movie. It was not as good as the first one, but better than the second one, in case you were wondering.

Since I had planned things close to home, and there were no kids there, I saw no reason to spend money on a hotel. So we vacationed at home. It was nice! In the morning, Ryan made me an omelet and served me breakfast in bed. He’s a sweetie! We dressed up and went to do a session in the Mt. Timpanogos temple. I guess if we were being really nostalgic, we would have gone to the Salt Lake Temple, since that’s where we were married, but this one is closer. There was a bit of confusion about my recommend (didn’t we just discuss this at book club?). I thought Ryan had mine, and when he checked, he said he had it, but he had my NEW one that doesn’t have all the proper signatures to be valid, and my OLD one must be in my church bag, since I had taken it to church with me last week. Ugh. So, they had to call my bishop and see if I was ok to go in.

After the temple session, we ran home, changed our clothes, and then went to the Desert Star theater to see Less Miserables. It was less miserable, and very funny! We did a lot of laughing. The funny thing was, they sat us at this tiny table in the back with another couple, and they were also celebrating their anniversary! How funny is that?! We had a great time, and they even sang to us at the end. Well, they sang to Ryan. I thought it was safe to slip out and go to the bathroom after they introduced us, said we were celebrating an anniversary, asked us where we met, etc., and had moved on to the next couple. Was I wrong. They then sang “Let me call you Sweetheart” and all the special anniversary couples were supposed to kiss. Whoops. I was in the bathroom and missed the whole song thing. I think Ryan felt kind of dumb sitting there by himself with no one to kiss.

After the show, we swung by the house, let Megan come home from her friend’s house, and then Ryan went to pick up the other kids. We got the glowing kids report from Grandma, which is always a good thing. The kids are perfect at Grandma’s house. While I wish they were perfect at home, too, I guess I should just be happy they are perfect at other people’s houses, right?

So, as you can see, it was a fun-filled anniversary celebration. I’m still glad I married him.

15 Things I Love About Paige

* Paige is Creative
She teaches the Relief Society lesson about once a month, and always has creative, fun ideas to keep the lessons interesting. She also makes balloon animals!

* Paige is Lucky
She works hard for it, but she does win a lot of radio contests. She’s our entertainment budget. We’ve been on trips to St. George, Disneyland, San Francisco, and most recently, Cancun, and we’ve gone to many other fun activities due to her ‘luck’.

* Paige has Friends
She makes friends easily, and seems to have friends wherever she goes. She also keeps in touch with her friends from Elementary school through college, and they’re all great people.

* Paige Supports me
She doesn’t complain when I have to work late or when I am off to work on someone’s basement, etc. She didn’t even raise her eyebrows when I told her I was going to rip out all of our light switches and replace them with new ones! She may roll her eyes at some of my ideas, but I can count on her backing me up.

* Paige is Musical
Paige has a great talent for music. She loves to sing and play bells, and she plays the piano as well.

* Paige is a Geek Girl
Although she probably wouldn’t admit it, Paige likes her gadgets. She likes the automation system in the house, and she loves the roomba.

* Paige has a great family
Paige’s parents, Pat and Eugene are pretty much the ideal in-laws. They aren’t critical or condescending, they invite us to events and activities and for sunday dinners, and are good company.

* Paige is Adventurous
She has always had a sense of adventure, and is willing to try pretty much anything at least once. When we were first married, we used to do spontaneous trips and getaways (one time, we decided to go to the grand canyon one afternoon, and left that night!), and although it’s harder with the kids, she’s still up for a good adventure.

* Paige Loves our kids
5 kids is no easy feat to pull off, but even though they try her patience (and mine!), Paige loves the kids, and would do anything to help them grow up into responsible, nice people.

* Paige is Beautiful
She is the most gorgeous thing I’ve ever seen or expect to see.

* Paige is Smart
‘Dumb Blonde’ definitely doesn’t apply here. Paige is a smart one.

* Paige is Clean but not a neat freak
Although Paige works hard to keep the house clean and tidy (and tries to get the kids to help), sometimes you have to give a little.

* Paige is Patient
I give her plenty of opportunities to test her patience, too. 🙂

* Paige Likes Parties
Ever since I met her, Paige has hosted parties. Whether a Sunday cake get-together in her apartment at BYU, planning a fun birthday party for one of the kids, or having neighbors or friends over for a BBQ in the back yard, Paige likes to host parties.

* Paige is Kind
She is always thinking of others, and when she hears that someone is having problems, she helps out.

15 years and counting

In honor of our 15th anniversary tomorrow (yea, us!), I’ve decided to share 15 things I love about Ryan. I’ve also invited him to do the same. Kind of a guest post from the administrator, if you will.

1-Ryan loved me first. And he brings up this fact often. You see, Ryan and I met at BYU. We both lived at Campus Plaza. I wasn’t really interested in him, but would go over to flirt with his cute roommate. The roommate didn’t notice, but Ryan (smart guy that he is), did.

2-Our first date was to a hockey game and to pizza at Litza’s Pizza.

3-Ryan wrote me throughout my entire 18 month mission to Germany. He got bored in classes a lot, so he would doodle and draw all over the envelopes or the letter. I couldn’t tell you how many letters he sent me, but it was more than I got from my parents or anyone else. Once when I was transferred and there was no mail coming, I sent myself the same postcard from Ryan over and over again. They don’t cancel the postage, so I could just drop it into any mailbox, and then, lo and behold, the next day I would get a postcard from Ryan in the mail. He sent me packages with silly things in them, and once I think I asked for some far side or Calvin and Hobbes cartoons, and he went to the Daily Universe office (the BYU newspaper) and got back issues and cut out tons of old comics for me. Now that’s love.

4-He thinks I look beautiful even with no make-up on and with my hair in a ponytail. I don’t see it, but it’s nice that he does.

5-He can fix just about any computer problem. And he does. For free. Sometimes, our friends and neighbors feel the need to pay him back for his help, and then I reap the benefit, too. Just this week a neighbor brought us a whole dinner (lasagna, bread, salad and fruit) to thank him for fixing her email.

6-He brings home the bacon so I don’t have to. And then if I feel like frying it up in a pan, he’s ok with that, too.

7-Ryan does not enjoy shopping. So I just pick up whatever clothes are on sale that I think he’ll like, and he wears them.

8-Although not always thrilled by my purchases, he doesn’t mind my garage sale habit, and occasionally he encourages me to go. We’ve set up a kind of ‘garage sale budget’ and he’ll say, “You haven’t gone for a few weeks, you probably have to spend more this time.”

9-He is older than me by two months and 20 days.

10-He cleans up throw up.

11-He’s been nothing but supportive of my time spent with the bell choir. Even when I’m gone every night in December (not really, but it seems like it), he does his best to be home to watch the kids. Ryan’s never complained about my weekly rehearsals, and he is one of our biggest fans. At our last concert in May, we walked out on the stage, and there he was on the FRONT row. My kids, my parents, my aunt and uncle, Ryan’s parents, and Ryan. All right there looking at me. I told them they are not allowed to sit in the front row anymore. I mean, that’s a little bit too supportive. And when I complain about mistakes made, he says “I didn’t hear any mistakes!” Maybe he’s just being nice, but it’s nice to have a supportive man.

12-Our honeymoon was up in Park City, but he was just getting a cold when we got married. By the end of the reception, he was in full-blown cold mode. Soon I was sick, too. So we spent our entire honeymoon being sick. We tried to go out and go see some sights in Park City, and I think we lasted about 1/2 an hour, then had to go back to the hotel and lie down. We drank Twisters juice and food from the local Albertsons. When he was feeling a bit better and I was really sick, he went and got me McDonald’s food. Needless to say, we’ve had much better vacations later.

13-When I was pregnant with Cole, I had a craving for a milkshake one night. Well, it wasn’t just any night, it was Christmas. I thought he could just go out and find some fast food place open, right? Wrong. Nothing was open, and he tried in vain to find me a milkshake. Worse yet, somehow he ran over the mud flaps on his truck and ended up with two flat tires. I felt so bad!

14-He has a great laugh.

15- He comes from a great family. When my friends complain about their in-laws not accepting them, or their parents and in-laws demanding equal time with them for holidays, I can’t really relate. Ryan’s mom claims that she liked me the best of my roommates when we came to their house for a dinner before Ryan and I were even dating. His parents have accepted me like a daughter, but not been demanding of our time in the least. His brother and sisters and their families all get along and are nice, and there’s no silly fighting between them. Of course, we don’t have that in my family, either, so we’re just lucky all around, I guess. And my parents loved Ryan WAY before we were engaged. In fact, I remember that they invited him over supposedly to watch a BYU game while I was away on my mission. I think they may even love him more than they love me, now. He’s more useful to them, that’s for sure.

So, as you can see, I have a wonderful husband, and I’m very happy that I married him 15 years ago!

Don’t tell and they won’t ask

Some of you may know that I my policy is not to tell my kids anything until the last minute.  If we are going to do something fun, they don’t find out about it until right before we go.  Vacations?  I try not to tell them until a day or two before we leave.  If someone’s coming to visit, I write it stealthily on the calendar and try not to let them know what it means.  Why?  Two reason, mainly.  1-Plans change, and 2-Because I can’t stand the pestering.

Mom, when are we going to do that fun thing?  How many more days?  Are we doing that fun thing today?  Right now?  Let’s go RIGHT NOW!!  When we go do that fun thing, I’m going to take my whatever with me.  Is it time for that fun thing?  Is it?  Is it?  Hmmmmmm?  And this goes on and on and on.

Some parents might think I’m depriving my kids of the anticipation, of the counting down on the calendar, the fun that is waiting.  Whatever.

John got an invitation to a birthday party this week.  Being only 3 (well, almost 4, actually), he doesn’t get to go to many parties, but all his little friends are turning 4, so there will be a few parties in the near future.  He doesn’t really understand the concept of getting an invitation a few days before the party so that the moms can plan and get a present.  So every day about 53 times a day he talks about Carl’s birthday, and finds things around the house that he can give Carl for a birthday present.  Then he asks me where Carl’s cake will be, and talks about the spiderman invitation.  It’s quite cute, even though he’s annoying the heck out of me.  I told him that we had a nice shark book to give Carl, and that we would wrap it soon.  So, right after breakfast today, he asked me where was the shark book, and could we wrap it, and he was going to give Carl a big car with the shark book.  So, being the average mother that I am, I got out the shark book and showed it to him.  I got this cool pop-up shark book for a great deal a little bit ago, and even though I think it’s a little bit advanced for a 4 year old, I think he’ll enjoy it.  Lucky for me, it’s wrapped in plastic so John can’t open it and look at it wrinkling all the pages before we give it to his friend.

The party is tomorrow.  I think he’ll only ask me about 84 times about it today, so I can handle that.

Unfortunately, tomorrow is also Back to School night (the kids are SO excited to meet their new teachers, can you believe it?) AND a cool party for Megan with her friends to watch High School Musical 2, AND the other kids get to go to Grandma and Grandpa Erickson’s house to sleep over.  So they have all kinds of things to be excited about, and to ask me WHEN they will happen.

Patience, my dear.  Patience.

Oh, and before I forget, thank you all for your nice comments on yesterday’s post.  I’m glad I’m not alone in my wanting to be alone–just once in a while.  I actually did send the two small kids over to a friend’s house, one friend came over here, and I stealthily crept up to my room and had a little nap.  And I’m feeling a lot better today.

That kind of day

Have you ever had one of those days when you just want to crawl back into bed and go to sleep for about a day and a half? And you would like everyone and everything to just leave you alone, and for the love of Pete, could they all just please stop fighting and ‘DO WHAT I ASKED YOU TO DO FOR ONCE!’ I guess I’ve reached the point where I’m anxiously awaiting the beginning of school. Even though I know that it will make us so darn busy I’ll want to pull my hair out, and we’ll have to deal with the homework and the practicing and the schedules, but right now, I say, ‘bring it on, baby.’

So, if you need me, I’ll be hiding in my bedroom. The room with a lock on the door. With some music on to drown out the sounds of the bickering, arguing children who are NOT doing the jobs around the house that I’ve asked them to do. I’ll be taking two tylenol and a diet coke over ice with me. And a book. And barring some blood curdling injury screams, I won’t be coming out until lunchtime. I’ll probably be doing something really useful and necessary like folding socks. By myself.

Farm Friends

If this isn’t the sickest looking chicken I’ve ever seen, I don’t know what is. I don’t know much about chickens, but all the others looked healthy and happy, and this poor little thing looked like it had just gone through the washer and the dryer.

“Mommy, can we get a sheep?”

Or better yet a pony!?

Or maybe a goat. Look how sweet this one is!

What is that smell?

There’s a really foul smell coming from the laundry room.  You know that smell I’m talking about, don’t you?  Someone probably cleaned up some spilled milk, then dumped the towel into the laundry basket to fester and sit for a few days until it could stink up the rest of the pile of dirty clothes.  So I must get every last piece of laundry through the wash today.  Hooray.

Can’t sleep

It’s 3 in the morning and I can’t sleep.

It’s way too hot in my bedroom, I have a toenail that’s snagging and bothering me, my muscles ache, my husband is snoring, the streetlight outside my bedroom window is too bright, and I’m worried.

I’m worried because I found out tonight that Megan is the only one in her WHOLE group of friends who got put in the AM school track.  She got the teacher I requested, but for some reason they switched her from the PM track (9:15-3:30) to the AM track (8:00-2:15).  My other kids are on the PM track.  Why would they put her in AM?  I’m pretty sure I requested PM, even though on the form it says you can request a teacher OR a track.  How a I going to get them to change her to the PM track and still get her in the class with the teacher I requested?  To borrow a phrase from Megan…”ARRRG”.

So, here I sit; blogging at 3 in the morning because I can’t sleep.

A little Sabbath Day quiz

I’m teaching a lesson today in Relief Society, and again they’ve given me two lessons to cram into about a half an hour. But the lessons go together.  One is on Keeping the Sabbath day holy, and the other is on reverence.  So, in the spirit of back to school, I made up a short little quiz.

1-Which commandment deals with keeping the Sabbath day holy?

2-What are some of the blessings we receive when we keep the Sabbath day holy?

3-the word “Sabbath” means what in Hebrew?

4-Name 4 things we should Not do on Sunday?

5-Name 4 things we should do on Sundays.

6- T/F—It is ok to lounge around and do nothing on Sundays.

7- t/f– Making brownies and taking them to your friends, the Ericksons, is an appropriate activity for a Sunday.

8-What is the most important part of our church attendance on Sunday?
9- T/F- Reverence is not a somber, temporary behavior that we adopt only on Sunday.

10- Define Reverence.

11-Where does reverence begin, and how can we develop it?

If you don’t know the answers, you could always read the lessons here and here.  This will also be my Family Home Evening lesson for tomorrow.  You know, two birds with one lesson type thing.  Or in this case…two lessons.  Whatever.  And for my handout/treat, I’ve got a little card that says “Keep the Sabbath Day Holy” with a lifesaver.  Hole-y.  Get it?

Summer reading?

Overwhelmed with Joy has come up with a fun plan to get people reading new books. She’s got a “Pay it forward Book Exchange”. Basically, you go there, sign up to win the book, and if you win, you promise to give it away when you are done with it, or give away a book that you have read and are finished with. It’s a great way to receive and/or get rid of books. There are quite a few people who have signed up to give away books themselves. So, in the spirit of giving, I’ve dug around in my bookshelf for a book that I enjoyed, but probably won’t read again. The Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver.

So if you would like to win this book, (and please understand that this is not a new pristine book.  It’s been read and enjoyed more than once, ok?) just leave a comment on this post. I’ll draw a name on Friday the 17th, and send it off for your reading pleasure. And for more chances to win, visit Overwhelmed with Joy and sign up for any of the contests currently running.

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