The Trials of a Busy Mom

Author: Superpaige (Page 132 of 180)

A spring in my step

This is my absolute favorite season of the year. The tulips are just starting to bloom, the grass has just been cut for the first time, and Easter is just around the corner. Yes, there’s a lot of work to be done, but it’s not too hot to go out and do some weed pulling. It’s also perfect weather for soccer, and Easter egg hunts.  The weather is perfect!

I’ve been given the opportunity to perform with the Tabernacle Choir this weekend. They are doing their first concert in the newly remodeled and rededicated Tabernacle. Last night I, along with 5 others from the bell choir rehearsed our tiny part in the program. Now, when I say time, I’m not exaggerating. I literally ring my bells 8 times. So, no, it’s not something that is really critical for the program, but the effect adds a lot to the song. The neatest part was just wandering around the new Tabernacle. There are new offices, new dressing rooms, and a new music room. Eventually we will have a place where we rehearse in that building, too. While sitting in Craig Jessop’s (the director of the Tab Choir) office to learn this little part of the song, I thought, “Wow! I’m in the Tabernacle sitting in Craig Jessop’s office. How cool is that?” After the song we participated in, Craig came and shook all of our hands and thanked us for coming and giving of our time to help out with the choir’s program.  So, although it will make for a very busy weekend and a lot of time away from home, it’s a great experience.

I can’t even think of a title for this one

I’m a little discombobulated this morning.  I helped Megan with her homework for most of the morning.  She wasn’t getting the whole Celcius/Farenheit thing, and had gotten most of the paper wrong on adding and subtracting minutes and hours.  Since it was her birthday yesterday and I was gone, she didn’t get the homework done last night.  By the time we were done, I looked up and realized it was time for the girls to leave, and 10 minutes from John’s preschool time.  And I’m still in my pajamas.  Oh well.  I took John to preschool in my pajamas.  With no bra, I might add.  I had some lipgloss in the car, and wore my sunglasses, so I didn’t look TOO scary, and put on a jacket to mask my bralessness.  Luckily, I only saw one other mom dropping off her daughter at preschool, and she understands.  You know you sometimes see those girls who go to the grocery store in their pajamas and fuzzy slippers?  I couldn’t be one of those people.  Unless maybe I had a bra on and makeup and the pajamas were just like regular clothes.  So, now the schedule of my day has been upset.  Not like I had much of a schedule anyway, but now I’m here, in my pajamas, trying to figure out what to do next.  I think I’ll fill up the easter eggs with candy.

Oh, on the radio is one of my least favorite songs…”Come on baby light my fire.”  Sing it with me in your best “Doors” voices —You know that it would be untrue You know that I would be a liar OK, that’s enough.  Why is it in the bottom 5 of my favorite songs?  Two words….Metal Shop.  Yes, Tina and Michelle will share the memories with me. Imagine Dean T. and Gary whats-his-name and the other flunkies in that class with us. When they wanted a light for their little torch welders, they would sing that song.  Oh, how clever. The horrible memories are flooding back.  Why did we take metal shop?  Because we were stupid, that’s why.  And we thought it would be more fun that taking home-ec.  Stupid, Stupid, Stupid.  I almost failed that class, friends.  But that’s the kind of decisions you make when you are 13 and in the 8th grade.  Oh, good, a new song.  Let’s take a deep breath, let the memories just go.  Girl.  You really got me now, you’ve got me so I can’t sleep at night.  Great.  Now I think of Sanjiah and that weird hair.  I think I’ll go and take a shower.

Happy Birthday, Megan

Today is Megan’s 11th birthday! Wow! Can you believe I have kids that old? Happy birthday to my wonderful girl. She’s always been blonde, and she’s always been cute. Here’s the proof.

 
She’s grown up into a beautiful girl, a great soccer player and our number one deviled egg maker.

But since she didn’t really let me know what she wanted for her birthday (besides the parakeets that she got a few weeks ago), I really don’t know what we are doing to celebrate.  She requested a “Hamburger cake” , which I am going to go find at the grocery store, and spaghetti for dinner.  So, not a huge celebration since it’s not a party year, but we’ll go out ofr dinner to celebrate in a few days.  She’ll be getting some new slippers, clothes, and a movie.  And tomorrow she’ll go out with her grandparents for dinner and shopping.

So, Megan, we Love you, and are so happy to have you in our family, and we all hope your birthday is Wonderful!

Customer Service?

On my errand to Walgreens yesterday to pick up Diet Dr. Pepper at the great price of 5/$11 for my dear husband, I witnessed an “incident.”  There was an older lady in front of me to check out, and she put her items up on the counter to pay for them.  Not much, just 6 cans of vegetables and a couple of Easter candies.  As the young checker was ringing them up, the lady said, “Now I have this coupon for the vegetables so they are 50 cents each.”

Poor unsuspecting Walgreens girl looked at the fine print in the coupon/ad, and said, “Oh, it says here that there’s a limit of 2 of each kind on these cans.”

“I know.  But I don’t want the peas.  I can’t eat peas,” said the older lady.

“Right.  But you can only get TWO of each kind,” says the checker.

“Well, I can’t eat peas; they make me sick.  Are you telling me I have to get peas in order to get the sale price?” says the older lady, starting to raise her voice.  And may I just point out that 50 cents for a can of vegetables isn’t a screaming deal, folks?  I stock up myself when they are 3 or 4 for a dollar.

“Ok, Ma’am,” says the poor girl, “you don’t have to get peas, but you can only get TWO of each of these at the sale price.”   She really was trying to get it through to her about that limit of 2.
“Well, I can’t EAT PEAS! I’m not going to buy peas!  I’ve never had a problem with this before! I’m not going to get any of these if you can’t honor the sale price,” she huffed. She went on and on, probably saying the word “Peas” 4 or 5 more times, then said, “I’ll just pay for these things.  We seem to be having a problem COMMUNICATING!”  Then she paid for her candy items, and it looked like she was leaving.  We were all a bit relieved until she turned and said in about the rudest voice I could imagine, “Can I have my AD back in case I want to get anything else?”

‘You mean the special ad that is there in the shopping cart or in the front of the store for anyone to pick up?’  I thought but didn’t say it, of course.  After the rude lady (who I actually know from a former ward, but won’t go into further details about her identity) left, I turned to the frazzled girl and said, “Wow, that was awkward.”  I told her that it wasn’t her fault and not to worry about it or let it ruin her day.  She just about broke into tears and told me that that was her worst customer experience yet. I paid for my few things, using the coupons and NOT complaining about peas or any such thing, hoping that the poor salesgirl won’t be scarred for life.

Projects

I don’t have any fun April Fool’s Jokes to play this year. Sorry. With April 1st being on a Sunday and General Conference, it just kind of slipped my mind and we didn’t fool anyone. But you could try this new wireless system.
We had a wonderful weekend listening to conference. There were a lot of messages on forgiveness, repentance and being kind to one another. I’m not a big grudge holder, but I still have a few things I need to let go of. I especially liked Elder Holland’s talk on speaking kindly. That’s one I really need to work on. I’m thrilled about the Tabernacle Rededication and excited about the upcoming events to celebrate that event. This weekend is the Tabernacle Choir concert, and I will be involved in that a tiny bit, and the Bell Choir spring concert in the Tabernacle will be May 17 and 18th. If you are interested in tickets for that event, they go “on sale” Tuesday morning at 10:00.

On Saturday I got a little project done; one that had been hanging over my head for quite some time. I sewed a new cover for our little playground. I get to do this about every two years, since I’m just using regular fabric instead of cool specialized playground canopy fabrics. But then I can change the look every time I do it, too, and it doesn’t cost much to make one. Here’s Megan and Ryan putting it up.

So, here’s the finished project:

Another thing I finished and got up on the wall is a Family Home Evening chart. How many years have we been having FHE? About 13. Have I ever had a FHE thing? No. I guess I didn’t want one that didn’t have everyone on it, and the ones I saw only had 5 or maybe 6 spaces. Well, I finally found one that would work for me, ordered it, painted it, put the lettering on it, and got it done.

Everyone is excited about their assignments, and I think it will help us a lot to know who’s doing what. Then maybe it won’t all be Mom’s job. For John’s activity, we’re going to color eggs.

Books without pictures

I didn’t make up this list, but maybe I should make one of the books I’ve read and care about.

Look at the list of books below:
*Bold the ones you’ve read
*Italicize the ones you want to read
*Leave blank the ones that you aren’t interested in.

*Cross out the ones you are so not interested in that you would never read.
If you are reading this: tag; you’re it!
1. The Da Vinci Code (Dan Brown)
2. Pride and Prejudice (Jane Austen)
3. To Kill A Mockingbird (Harper Lee)
4. Gone With The Wind (Margaret Mitchell (Ok, haven’t read the whole thing, but seen the movie multiple times)
5. The Lord of the Rings: Return of the King (Tolkien)
6. The Lord of the Rings: Fellowship of the Ring (Tolkien)
7. The Lord of the Rings: Two Towers (Tolkien)

8. Anne of Green Gables (L.M. Montgomery)
9. Outlander (Diana Gabaldon)
10. A Fine Balance (Rohinton Mistry)
11. Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire (Rowling)
12. Angels and Demons (Dan Brown)
13. Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix (Rowling)
14. A Prayer for Owen Meany (John Irving)
15. Memoirs of a Geisha (Arthur Golden)
16. Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone (Rowling)
17. Fall on Your Knees (Ann-Marie MacDonald)
18. The Stand (Stephen King)
19. Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban (Rowling)
20. Jane Eyre (Charlotte Bronte) I started this one, but didn’t finish it
21. the hobbit
22. the catcher in the rye(J.D. Salinger)
23. Little Women (Louisa May Alcott)
24. The Lovely Bones (Alice Sebold)
25. Life of Pi (Yann Martel)
26. The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy (Douglas Adams)
27. Wuthering Heights (Emily Bronte)
28. The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe (C. S. Lewis)

29. East of Eden (John Steinbeck)
30. Tuesdays with Morrie (Mitch Albom)
31. Dune (Frank Herbert)
32. The Notebook (Nicholas Sparks)
33. Atlas Shrugged (Ayn Rand)
34. 1984 (Orwell)
35. The Mists of Avalon (Marion Zimmer Bradley)
36. The Pillars of the Earth (Ken Follett)
37. The Power of One (Bryce Courtenay)
38. I Know This Much is True (Wally Lamb)

39. the red tent(Anita Diamant)
40. The Alchemist (Paulo Coelho)
41. The Clan of the Cave Bear (Jean M. Auel)
42. The Kite Runner (Khaled Hosseini)
43. Confessions of a Shopaholic (Sophie Kinsella)
44. The Five People You Meet In Heaven (Mitch Albom) haven’t read it but seen the tv movie, does that count?
45. Bible – most, but not all
46. Anna Karenina (Tolstoy)
47. The Count of Monte Cristo (Alexandre Dumas)
48. Angela’s Ashes (Frank McCourt)

49. The Grapes of Wrath (John Steinbeck)
50. She’s Come Undone (Wally Lamb)
51. The Poisonwood Bible (Barbara Kingsolver)
52. A Tale of Two Cities (Dickens)
53. Ender’s Game (Orson Scott Card)
54. Great Expectations (Dickens)
55. The Great Gatsby (Fitzgerald)
56. The Stone Angel (Margaret Laurence)
57. Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets (Rowling)
58. The Thorn birds (Colleen McCullough)
59. The Handmaid’s Tale (Margaret Atwood)
60. The Time Traveller’s Wife (Audrew Niffenegger)
61. Crime and Punishment (Fyodor Dostoyevsky) Started this one, but didn’t get too far.
62. The Fountainhead (Ayn Rand)
63. War and Peace (Tolstoy)
64. Interview With The Vampire (Anne Rice)
65. Fifth Business (Robertson Davis)
66. One Hundred Years Of Solitude (Gabriel Garcia Marquez)
67. The Sisterhood of the Travelling Pants (Ann Brashares)
68. Catch-22 (Joseph Heller)
69. Les Miserables (Hugo)
70. The Little Prince (Antoine de Saint-Exupery)
71. Bridget Jones’ Diary (Fielding) does the movie count?
72. Love in the Time of Cholera (Marquez)
73. Shogun (James Clavell)
74. The English Patient (Michael Ondaatje)
75. The Secret Garden (Frances Hodgson Burnett)
76. The Summer Tree (Guy Gavriel Kay)
77. A Tree Grows in Brooklyn (Betty Smith)
78. The World According To Garp (John Irving)
79. The Diviners (Margaret Laurence)
80. Charlotte’s Web (E.B. White)
81. Not Wanted On The Voyage (Timothy Findley)
82. Of Mice And Men (Steinbeck)
83. Rebecca (Daphne DuMaurier)
84. Wizard’s First Rule (Terry Goodkind)
85. Emma (Jane Austen)
86. Watership Down(Richard Adams) got about 1/4 of the way through this one.
87. Brave New World (Aldous Huxley)
88. The Stone Diaries (Carol Shields)
89. Blindness (Jose Saramago)
90. Kane and Abel (Jeffrey Archer)
91. In The Skin Of A Lion (Ondaatje)
92. Lord of the Flies (Golding)
93. The Good Earth (Pearl S. Buck)

94. The Secret Life of Bees (Sue Monk Kidd)
95. The Bourne Identity (Robert Ludlum)
96. The Outsiders (S.E. Hinton)
97. White Oleander (Janet Fitch)
98. A Woman of Substance (Barbara Taylor Bradford)
99. The Celestine Prophecy (James Redfield)
100. Ulysses (James Joyce)

Wow, according to this list, I’m not as well read as I would like to be. But it gives me ideas for the next time I am bookless.

Always look on the bright side of life

One of my favorite bloggers, Carmen at Mom to the Screaming Masses told this sweet story on her blog today:
There were two boys who were the subject of an experiment. One was put into a room with every toy known to children. The other boy was put into a room full of horse manure. They were left alone for quite a while, and then the doctor conducting the experiment came to check on them. He found the boy who was in the room of toys, sitting on the side, looking dejected. When questioned, he said that the reason he was so upset was that there was no Nintendo DS in the room. That was his favorite toy. The doctor went to check on the second boy, and to his suprise, found him jumping around, dancing, singing, laughing and having a grand time. When questioned as to how he could possibly be so happy in a room filled with horse manure, he responded, “With this much horse manure, there MUST be a pony in here somewhere!”

That’s a nice way to look at things, isn’t it? Which reminds me of this . And while I was looking for that, I found this, which also made me laugh.

So, my message to you today is…have a wonderful day!

Spring weather

Well, it really did snow yesterday–finally.  I kept waiting around yesterday wondering where this nasty weather we were supposed to receive was.  It was dark and cloudy, but didn’t even rain until the afternoon.  Then last night it started to snow.  It is actually still snowing lightly here.  It’s the perfect kind of snow where it doesn’t stick to the sidewalk or road, but there’s a nice little layer (about 2 inches) on the grass.  I’m sure it will melt quickly, but I like it.  I know a lot of people could be complaining about snow after we’ve had such nice weather, but I am enjoying this little cold spell.  You don’t want it to get too warm too fast in the spring.  That’s one of the things I like about spring in Utah.  It could be wonderful and warm, and then it snows!  Diversity!

I guess I just like it cause I’m lazy.  I’ve got a lot of yard work to do out there.  I’ve already filled up two garbage cans with dead stuff I should have taken care of in the fall, and lots of little weeds.  On Monday I bought a huge bottle of round-up from Costco and sprayed all the little grasses and weeds invading my flower beds, and Ryan put the pre-emergent on the lawns, but we still have tons of work to do to get our yard ready for the warm weather.  So, if it’s snowy, we can’t work outside!  See, I’m really just lazy.

Oh, and here’s a picture of our two new little birdies.

They’ve been renamed Skyler and Sammy, and are really quite cute.  Megan is loving having them as pets.  One of them had an unfortunate incident where John caught him, pulled him out of the cage and proceeded to pull out all his tail feathers the other day, however.  Megan was a little bit more understanding when I reminded her that she did the same thing to Sundance when she was about his age (what is it with those tail feathers?).

Chest pains of a different sort

I’ve been suffering from chest pains today.  STABBING chest pains.  Before you get all alarmed and tell me I should be going to the ER for things like that, let me explain.  The underwire has escaped from my underwire bra and is protruding about an inch, giving me periodic stabbings.  I keep trying to shove it back in there, but without taking the darn thing off and doing some serious work on it, it doesn’t help.

After dinner Ryan gave me a hug, and I said, “Watch out, I may stab you.”  And then I broke out singing (I couldn’t help it) “Stabbed through the heart, and you’re to blame.  You give love a bad name.”  And a little voice pipes up from over at the table, “It’s shot through the heart.  Not stabbed.”  I looked over to see why in the world my 6 year old would be correcting me on a Bon Jovi song.  “How do you know that?”  I asked her.  “Brittan told me.”  So, her little friend is teaching her Bon Jovi songs?  I may have to talk to her mother about that.

I need a weekend to recover from my weekend

My kids had the day off of school on Friday, and since Cole was gone camping, I decided to do something fun with the other kids. We had a few free passes to Boondocks that the kids had gotten from school, so we went there. It was a good way to celebrate the end of the cast for Jenna, too.

We did some golfing, which was quite entertaining to watch certain little people hit and push the ball about twenty times, then stand up with glee picking the ball out of the cup and saying, “I did that in ONE shot!” After golfing, Megan and Natalie went to play a game of lasertag while I took Jenna and John to Kiddie Cove. I shouldn’t have wasted the money on buying them Kiddie Cove wristbands, they didn’t want to go in. I think Jenna was a bit scared of using her new uncasted leg so much, but eventually she did some climbing around and sliding. John was happiest “playing” the race car and shoot-em-up games. Since he doesn’t really care if he’s playing the real game or the demo, we stick with the demos. After one more game of laser tag and quite a few little arcade games, we took our tickets to cash in and buy our cheap crap. Luckily we had just enough tickets for everyone to get something they wanted.

After our fun filled day at Boondocks, we got to go to an “Activity day Idol” at the church. The idea was cute, with all the girls doing some kind of talent, but it just went on TOO long. They even had a “Simon”, “Paula” and “Randy” doing the comments after each girl’s talent. Two hours for a talent show? Too long.

(Just like this post is too long. I know! Go get yourself a drink, maybe an energy bar if you plan to make it through.)

Saturday was our first soccer game of the season, and it was beautiful weather. My kids complained that it was too cold, but I thought it was just right for soccer. We took hot dogs and drinks for the snacks, and that was a big hit. I cooked them and put them in the buns, then wrapped each one in aluminum foil, and stuck them all in a cooler with a little microwavable hot pack. The girls ate them up!

I also did some clean up work in the front yard, filling one whole trash can with dead plants and weeds. Then I managed to get the kitchen and family room mostly clean, since we had invited a new family in our ward over for dinner. We had a fun time, and John loved having a 3 year old boy to play with.

Sunday we were having an old mission buddy of Ryan’s come over with his family. We had decided to cook up a turkey that was hanging out in our freezer (since it had been there since Christmas, and we need the freezer space), so for three days it was taking up lots of room in our fridge. So after Church we had another quick clean-up, then a flurry of activity to get the turkey dinner ready. When they came, it was fun fun fun, as they have 5 kids, too, around the same ages as ours. The kids had a great time and became instant friends.

Now comes the recovery. I have a turkey roaster, a small crock-pot, a large crock-pot and glasses to wash. And get myself organized for the week. So, although it was a fun filled weekend, it wasn’t very restful. I could use a weekend after my weekend.

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