The Trials of a Busy Mom

Month: July 2007 (Page 2 of 3)

Some days you’re the windshield, some days you’re the bug

It was not a good day for the Erickson family yesterday. Don’t panic. Nobody got in a car accident or anything like that and our house is still here, but we did have a few other things pile up on us.

First, I had taken the van in on Monday to see if they could fix it. It’s been running really rough the past few weeks (and that darn check engine light has been bugging me) and I worried that it was going to stop running altogether. They told me they would “start with a tune-up” and see if that takes care of the problem. Well, even though a tune up sounds like a simple adjustment of a few car gadgets, it’s really at least two hours of labor to practically get the entire engine out to check wires, spark plugs,etc. The tune up (which it honestly needed at 136,000+ miles) itself was about $300. But that didn’t solve the problem. They tested a couple more things and I think it was the fuel injector that was causing all the trouble. Anyway, the total came to just over $500. Gulp.

Next, my dishwasher hasn’t been working very well, and this week I finally figured out a day I could be home for a few hours, so I called the repair man. He came yesterday and took apart my dishwasher enough to tell me that there was a problem with the main valve, and it wasn’t filling with water properly. He could order a new part, and for a mere $226 he’ll come back and install that part (on Monday). Gulp. Unfortunately, since he disconnected things, the dishwasher that was limping along but still worked, now doesn’t really work much, so that means we’ll be hand washing our dishes. Yes, I should have waited until I didn’t have 10 people living in my house before making this decision, but who knew?

Later, Ryan went to pay for the van’s mini-makeover and take it back to his work. As he was pulling out, he realized that the tire was flat. He pulled back over to fill it, and the repair guy came out and said, “I filled that tire earlier. It shouldn’t be flat already.” Shouldn’t be, but yet it is. Luckily, there is a tire place just around the corner, so Ryan went over there to see if he could get the flat repaired. It could not be repaired. Of course not. And the wear indicators were showing on the other tires to let us know that, “Dude, you’re driving on bald tires,” (my quote, not his). Gulp. Let’s plop down another $400 something on tires, shall we? (The good part of the story is that Ryan was actually the one who dealt with the tire problem, as I’ve already mentioned my claustrophobia and panic that comes from hanging out in repair places, let alone my total lack of knowledge when it comes to all things automotive. Or I could have been driving home late at night and had to deal with a flat tire. Hello? Triple A?)

Now I understand that repairs happen. But must they all happen in the same day?

After I got home from rehearsal last night, I sat down and opened the mail. Hmmm. What’s this letter from the IRS? . What the….? We’ve received a notice that informs us that we owe the IRS aprox. $3900 for a mistake in our taxes in 2005. Gulp. I handed it all over to my tax man (Ryan) and managed to not scream or swear or hit anyone. I think I handled it pretty well.

Meanwhile, I’ll be canceling all of our fun plans for the rest of the summer. And maybe selling all of my children’s belongings on ebay.

Works for me–Reuse those swiffer dusters

This is my first time to participate in Works for me Wednesday, but I’m game for new things.

My tip is to reuse those swiffer dusters. I just love those dusters, especially on ceiling fans and hard to reach places. But they can be expensive, right? Once they are all dusty and gross, just toss them in the washer. Don’t put them in the dryer,as they will get all shriveled and shrinky and won’t be so useful. If you use them when they are just a bit damp, they pick up all that dust the next time you are dusting. And you don’t have to pay all that money for more dusters.

For more tips, check it out here.

Did I mention this?

I think I might have forgotten to mention that my girls were in a show. Natalie and Jenna have been working hard for 6 weeks of classes for their mini musical theater workshop. Saturday night was their big show. And it was so fabulous!

They sang and danced to a whole bunch of songs that were worked into a little play. They even had a solo!
I’m so proud of them!

And of course, they were the cutest ones up there performing (totally unbiased here).

If I were any more fun, I’d have to be a Disney character

I did spend the day watching my sister’s kids. They took the baby with them, so it was only 7 kids. But I brought Jenna with me, so it was up to 8. And they were all very good. Seriously. They are easy kids to watch. Other than the short outburst the two year old had when she woke from a tiny nap and I was STILL HERE, and she proceeded to scream “No! No! NO!” over and over again, we did ok. I just sent her sister over to see if she’d like a drink or a snack or anything, and stayed as far away from her as I could, and then eventually she happied up again. In order to keep my place as the “fun aunt”, I had to be prepared. I brought movies that they hadn’t seen (Pete’s Dragon, while pretty annoying to me, keeps kids attention if they’ve never seen it before), made sugar cookies and let them each choose 3 cookie cutters to use to cut out the cookies, and took these little perler activity beads, which are plastic beads that you form and then iron.    If  you’ve never tried them before, they are worth every penny (especially when you buy a whole quart sized ziplock bag of them for $1 at a garage sale. I just had to buy more to replenish my supply though, after 6 kids doing 2 or 3 each). They keep kids occupied for a while, and they can make all kinds of designs on the little molds. They were a big hit. In fact, when their mom and dad came home, they yelled, “No! You can’t be home yet! I’m not done with my design!” But I stayed long enough for them to finish up.

Here at home, the kids are having a blast. Today we were going to go to Seven Peaks water park, but with a forecast of thundershowers and no refunds on your day passes if it rains, we decided to go another day. But I don’t think the kids are too devestated. Robin took my two oldest and her two to a smaller water park/splash pool in Provo, so I’m sure they’ll be excited to tell us all about it. They’ve been watching movies, playing video games and playing outside. Even the younger kids who don’t have a friend their own age are enjoying having guests here. We let them stay up late, they get ice cream and lots of games. Why wouldn’t they love it?

We also went for our traditional Robin and Paige splurge of a pedicure, and now my toes look fancy and my feet are soft!

Check in time is at 3:00

It’s not quite a hotel we’ve got here; it’s more of a bed and breakfast, lunch, snacks and dinner.

My brother’s family left on Saturday.  It was about 11:30 by the time they packed everything up and pulled out, and started on the long drive to Arizona.

Robin and her kids arrived at about 3:00.

NO, we didn’t get the whole house cleaned up, but I did manage to wash and change the sheets in the “guestroom” and get that whole room cleaned and vacuumed.  And we got all the dishes done and some of the other bedrooms cleaned up.  For some reason I had about 25 towels to wash, and they’ve now been washed, but are not folded.  But you get what you pay for here, people.

On the bright side, it’s kind of nice to be a vacation destination.  That way we get to see friends and family and we don’t have to do all that annoying driving to get there.  And I’d rather hang out at my house than hang out at their houses in Arizona, except maybe in the winter.

Today we’re doing a little parent swap.  Robin’s going to watch my kids and her kids, and I’m going to go and watch my sister’s kids.  My sister’s 8 kids.  I’ll let you know how that goes.

Fun in the sun with cousins

I haven’t written much about the fun we’ve been having with our cousins here because I’m kind of waiting for pictures to go with it. But we’ve been having a blast. Jenna and Kaylee disappear for hours playing happily together. John had been running around, playing on the playground and playing with cars and trucks with Danny. Cole, however, is in cousin heaven. He has two cousins, Brenden and Bryce, who are just about his age. They’ve played countless hours of monopoly, magblast, risk and phase 10. Yesterday they broke out the laser tag, and they’ve been shooting each other all hours of the day and night. The three boys were also my landscapers this week, and while Cole mowed the lawn, the other boys sprayed the morning glory, pulled some weeds and dug out two junk trees I needed removed. They’ve gone on bike rides and hikes and they even went horseback riding. Even though Megan is not technically a boy, they’ve allowed her in on a lot of the fun, too. We set up the little pool, and had all the kids splashing about and running in and out of the water. Away from home, they’ve enjoyed American Fork canyon, Cabella’s, and the dinosaur museum at Thanksgiving point. Since it was the Museum’s 7th birthday, they had lots of birthday festivities all this week, and even had cake! The kids had a blast. Of course, no family outing is complete until someone is put on time out, and it’s made even better if there’s an “I hate you” muttered venomously through clenched teeth. So, in this respect, it was a huge success. Here are my two girls on time out at the museum. I had to pull them both toward me and make them say two nice things about each other. Notice that I’m the only one smiling. But other than that it’s been a wonderful week. We also celebrated another cousin’s birthday last night, so it was even more of a cousin fest. What fun we’ve had, and we’re so glad to have our family visit!

(If by chance you didn’t see enough pictures and you’d like to see even more, click here.

Potty training. Or reason number 23 of why being a mother is the hardest job I know

I had a friend ask me last night how the potty training with John was going. She probably expected to me tell her that it’s GREAT. He willingly and voluntarily uses the potty and we are a happy family. I mean, it has been about 3 months since we’ve been working on this.

Well, it is going great.

That is, if your idea of great is a kicking and screaming battle 3 or 4 times a day to get him to actually use the potty. We have rewards, threats, time outs, sweet understanding mommy, tired grumpy mommy, and reasoning mommy working on this here. And then there’s the changing of the poopy pants at least once a day, since there’s no way he’s actually going to poop in the potty of all places. Frankly, I’m worn down and worn out. Why must I put myself (and him) through this? So he’ll have more emotional scarring to fuel his therapy later in life? So that I can beat myself up daily because I must be a terrible mother because I can’t figure out a way to make this work? Why? Why? Why? (banging head against the desk)

And if you tell me how your child was potty trained in 3 days, so help me, I will hunt you down and attack you in your sleep. I’m just saying.

Cow appreciation Day? Wow!

This one is just too great not to pass along.  Tomorrow–Friday the 13th–is Cow appreciation day.

Wear any sort of “cow accessory” and get a free entree at Chick-fil-A. Wear a whole cow outfit and get an entire meal for free. It’s silly, it’s weird, and it’s free food. What more could you ask for?

Insert “some clever title about the best laid plans” here

Well, the guests are here, and we’re having fun. There are cousins for John, Jenna and Cole to play with. The other girls? Not so much, but they are doing fine.

Last week I won 8 passes to the Harry Potter Premier for Monday night. (Which was no small feat, by the way, as I had to win TWO sets of four tickets. Then Ryan graciously drove down to the radio station to pick them up for me.) Perfect! I could take Cole, his cousins, my sister-in-law, Megan, a friend, me and Ryan. Since it’s a pretty popular movie (duh), we were going to try to make it there 2 hours early to make sure we could get a seat. There’s a silly thing about these movie premiers–they give out more tickets than they actually have seats, since they want a full theater.

In order to be downtown by 5, I had to ask everyone to make their own sandwiches while I went to American Fork to turn in the kids’ artwork for the Steel Days Art contest at 3. After standing out in the hot sun filling out forms and attaching entry forms to 8 pieces of artwork, I hurried home to pack up the lunches and go and get the babysitter. She was originally scheduled for 4:30, but I called and asked if I could get her at 4, so we could leave a bit earlier. While I was gone, I asked Cole to help John use the potty. About 10 minutes later, I came back with the babysitter. Megan’s friend was here, and everyone was just kind of mulling around. Cole was in the bathroom with John, who was still crying and didn’t want to use the potty. Oh. He’s already stinky, that’s why. Which means I have to change him, while simultaneously telling the kids to please go out to the car and remove the car seats so that we can all fit in there. After getting John taken care of, I give some instructions to the babysitter, tell the kids to go and get in the car, and gather up our food and snacks and water bottles. Giving out last shout for “EVERYBODY GET IN THE CAR!” I go out and make sure everyone has a water bottle. I did not, however, ask if everyone had shoes. Silly me.

So, we made the drive to the gateway and I was so impressed with our time. We got a couple of “where are you, now?” calls from Ryan’s brother, who was already up there and had picked up his tickets. Then I got a call from Ryan (on his brother’s phone) asking where we were. “Almost there,” I said, still proud of us for actually getting 7 people there by 5:00. “Well, I’ve already gotten my ticket, but you’d better hurry because they say the tickets are almost gone,” he told me. Like telling me to hurry is going to do any good. Does he think I can fly there? I’m doing my best.

So we pulled into the underground parking and told the kids to all get ready so we could make a dash for it once we got there. “I’ve got to find my shoes,” says Cole. We all told him to look on the floor, and just make sure he had his shoes so we could run once we found a parking spot. “I can’t find them!” he says, getting a little bit upset. Well, they have to be there, right? Who gets into the car without their shoes?! Apparently Cole does. We found a spot, grabbed our stuff, and hustled (shoes or no shoes) to the movie theater. It was about 5:10, I think. No tickets. Ryan is there telling us that had we made it there 8 – 10 minutes earlier, we might have gotten tickets. The employee told us to stick around, they would see if there was any way they could get us in, but the tickets were all gone.

I’m ashamed to admit, but I got really snappy and irritated about then when Ryan started asking me when did we leave, and his brother called on my cell again. When he noticed that Cole didn’t have any shoes and started asking him about that, Cole started to cry. He thought that the reason we didn’t make it in time was because of his shoes. That really wasn’t the problem, just an added bonus to make the story better. As we waited, I cooled off and apologized to Ryan for snapping at him, and made sure Cole understood that we weren’t mad about the shoes. We played cards and ate our sandwiches, and Ryan took Cole shopping to find some new shoes. Just in case they wouldn’t let him in to the theater without them–you know, those “no shirt, no shoes, etc” rules?–I guess it’s a good thing I didn’t take him to find new shoes, since there’s no way I would have paid those kind of Gateway prices and he would continue to be shoeless. They came back with new size 8 vans. Size EIGHT! I have been buying him size 6. hmmmm.

At 6:45, they told us that there were absolutely NO extra seats, and none of us were going to get in. We gave Ryan’s one ticket to a lady who was there alone and SO wanted to see the movie, since it wouldn’t make any sense for just one of use to go see it. Then we tried to figure out what to do. The kids had been so good, and I had promised them a movie. The next showing of any movie we would have wanted to see didn’t start for another hour, and frankly we were tired of sitting on the floor in the lobby of the movie theater.

We decided to go to the Planetarium. Entrance is free, and there were some cool things to see before the IMAX movie. Since I didn’t want to sit through an IMAX movie (after all I’d been through, do I just want to get sick from a stupid movie? I don’t think so), and my sister-in-law didn’t really want to see it, either, we just paid for the kids to go. Then we walked down and did some window shopping, ending up in the Barnes and Noble reading to pass the 45 minutes.

Although it wasn’t a total disaster of an evening, I still feel as if I let everyone down. I promised them a cool movie premier, and couldn’t deliver. I dragged them all the way downtown in the 100 degree heat just to sit for two hours in the lobby of a crowded theater. How much fun is that?

Be our Guest. Be our Guest. Put our service to the test.

Sunday we will have house guests until about the end of the month. Hooray and fun! I thought it was going to be today (Saturday), but I just found out they aren’t coming until tomorrow. Which is fine, because the house isn’t quite clean yet, even though we’ve been working for what seems like forever to get things cleaned up and ready for guests. We’ve transformed Megan’s room to a nice Megan/guest room. On Wednesday we painted. On Thursday we put things back together

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and today we (meaning Ryan) did all the handyman stuff,

like hanging the curtain rods, the art on the walls, and a little hook thing for hats. We even put a mirror in there, and I made a little seed catching skirt for the parakeets.


It looks much better in person, of course, but I’m very happy with how it turned out. Not to be leaving the other kids out, we hung the stuffed animal “towers” up in everyone’s rooms, hung a mirror and shelf in the girls’ room, and put up some new curtains. Yes, we’ve been busy, but not busy enough, according to the kids. They just want to know “when are you going to paint MY room?!” but that will have to wait until after the guests all leave.

I’m sure it will be a fun week with my sister in law and kids here. And after that, Robin and kids are coming!

So, now all we need are the guests!

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