The Trials of a Busy Mom

Category: Bells (Page 6 of 7)

Road trip

Today we have a “road trip” for our bell choir. If you could call it that. It’s more of a long drive on the bus, do a concert, then drive a long drive on the bus home. We’re going to Garland. It’s close to Tremonton. I’ve actually been to Garland once. My good friend Sharmyn was in a play up there a few years back. No, she didn’t live there. She lived in Salt Lake, worked in Salt Lake, and would drive up there for rehearsals and performances. Talk about crazy. But she’s a theater person, and all theater people are just a little bit crazy, aren’t they? Ryan and I went up to see her in that play. It was something about a Vicar’s wife. Silly me, I didn’t even know what a vicar was. But Sharmyn was brilliant in that play, and we enjoyed our drive up there. That must have been before we had kids, because I can’t really imagine us going up there with little people in tow. But I digress. We’re doing a bell concert up there tonight. So, if you know anyone who lives close by and wants to attend a free concert, be sure to let them know.

I feel a little bit like I did in high school, when our Brighton high school bell choir went up to Thatcher Penrose (a little town also close to Tremonton) for a bell concert. We were a bit bummed because the madrigals got to go on a fabulous trip to Hawaii or something like that, and we got to go to Thatcher Penrose. We stayed with people in the community overnight, went horseback riding, and did a concert. Then we came home. Melinda and I stayed with the cutest little old lady in a sweet old house. It was fun. Really, we had a great time. But let’s face it, it’s no Hawaii.

When asked why we’re going there for our first “away from Salt Lake” concert, I have to answer that it’s our director’s home town (same director as we had back in high school, by the way). I’m hoping it’s a test run and that maybe some day we can go a bit farther away and do more concerts, but we’ll have to see about that. We’re pretty new as a group, and we aren’t generating any of our own money from CD sales or anything like that, so things like that will take a while. But for today, I’m hoping that the large amounts of time we will spend on a bus will be fun. Fun as in chatting with friends, listening to music fun, and not that carsick kind of fun that I sometimes get on buses or other moving vehicles.

Musical Mentality

Anyone who plays a musical instrument knows all about practicing. I myself have spent many unpleasant hours practicing the piano, and now I wish I had practiced more and payed more attention so that I could play without being terrified. I rehearse two hours a week with the bell choir, and sometimes I even “practice” at home. That’s quite an odd looking handbell mime, as we don’t have handbells at home, so I have to just pretend like I’m playing as I read through the hard parts on the music. Like air handbells.  Yes, the kids laugh at me.

The kids are supposed to practice the piano every day, right? I’m pretty lax about it and don’t make them practice more than about 20 minutes a day (and they don’t always do every day, either), although I know they should probably practice for longer. I want them to be proficient so that they could play in church, accompany for singing and just be comfortable playing the piano in front of people. I’ve told them that lessons are mandatory until they are 16 years old. And they have to play the piano, but if they want to do another instrument, they can choose.  Usually I like listening to them practicing. I can tell if they’ve finally gotten over a rough spot, and it’s fun to hear them improving.

There are times, however, when listening to them practicing is not quite so fun. Take, for instance, when Natalie decides to practice at 7am on Sunday morning. My bed is almost directly over the piano, so I can hear it pretty well. And the song she chooses to start with? Reveille. The only way it could have been more annoying would be to play it on a bugle! I don’t particularly love it when Cole blasts The Phantom of the Opera on the flute for the millionth time, but I try to go to a place farther away and just tough it out until he’s done (he doesn’t really know how to play softly).  Or when Cole played his latest song, “Variations on a Sea Chanty”, which is really just this song. I really hate that song. I hate it even more than the horse with no name song; which I hate.

Why is it that we come to hate songs? Ryan hates The Little Drummer Boy. Par-ump-a-pum-pum. How can anyone hate a lovely Christmas song like that? Oh well, he just does. I’m not particularly fond of the overplayed sappy Christmas shoes song (and no, I’m not going to justify it with a link. So there!) My sister-in-law, Julene hates this song by the beach boys. I’m not sure why, and I’m sure there’s a story behind it, but all I know is whenever I hear that song now, I just think, “Oh, Julene hates this song.” Funny, huh?

Well, the reason I hate the drunken sailor song stems back to my early days as a missionary for the LDS church in Duesseldorf, Germany. I had a companion who loved to sing. Nothing wrong with that, ladies and gentlemen, as I also love to sing. But she would get a song in her head and sing it endlessly (or at least it seemed endless) while we were tracting. Between knocking on doors and hearing “Keine interesse! or Ich bin Katholisch und das reicht,” from grumpy German hausfrauen, I have to listen to this companion singing “What do we do with a drunken soldier….” ad nauseum. When she got bored with that, she translated it (poorly) into German, and would sing, “Was sollen wir tun mit ein betrunken soldatten …” (not knowing the real German word for soldier, she’d just make something up). God bless her and her enthusiasm, but now whenever I hear that song, my left eye begins to twitch and I have to Make. it. stop!

So, what are the songs you hate, and why?  Is there a story behind your hating that song, or do you just not like it?  Inquiring minds want to know.  I want to know.

Easter Weekend

Oh, the sugar high is still going strong, as I somehow feel that it would be a good idea to eat all the sugar I come in contact with, since I spent the last 40 days avoiding it. Needless to say, it’s not the healthy way to be, but I’ll be healthy again tomorrow. My Vacuum is now full of plastic grass, some of the Easter stuff has been put away, and it’s time to write about the weekend before I forget.

Friday night and Saturday night I was involved with the Tabernacle Choir concert, and it was WONDERFUL. As I mentioned before, I had a tiny part in ONE song, so the Bells on Temple Square were not huge contributors, but we did add a certain something. You can read a review here. The coolest part was just being in the newly restored Tabernacle for the first time, wandering around backstage like we were supposed to be there. Here’s a picture that Ryan took.
I’m the blonde blob just to the left of the podium.

Our Saturday was very busy, with a soccer game, a test for Natalie at the school, an Easter egg hunt and watching my sister’s kids. But we had a LOT of fun. We also partially cleaned out the garage, so that my parents could take their tent trailer to it’s summer home (their house) and tried to get ready for Easter. Since Ryan was hauling things out of the garage, I guess he decided to fire up the old mini-gote and gave the kids rides all around the neighborhood. Would you like to see a few pictures? Of course you would.



That last one is my niece. She was quite fascinated by the birds.

Sunday, although at the end of an exhausting week, was not the end. The Tabernacle Choir and everyone involved with them was meeting Sunday after the weekly broadcast for a group picture in the Tabernacle with President Hinckley. So I got to go back up to Salt Lake again to be in this group picture. It was an amazing experience. The choir, Orchestra, Bells, Chorale, Stage Crew, and support people were all there arranged on the stage for a photo. At the center was our prophet. He spoke to us all for a few minutes about what a historic place we were in, and how pleased he was with all our work and service. I am not ashamed to admit that I had tears in my eyes. It was simply wonderful! The choir presented him with some gifts for an early birthday celebration, since they will be on tour in June, when he celebrates his 97th birthday. We all sang Happy Birthday to him. It was an experience I will never forget.

By the time I got home, it was lunch time and almost time to go to church. The house was a shambles and I had quite a few things to get done before dinner. I must admit my kids were not decked out in their finest Easter outfits, but they were clean. No hair was curled, and they were just wearing whatever they had picked out, although I did veto the blue striped socks with the black skirt and red blouse that Megan had on. I’m so glad Ryan was there taking care of everyone the whole weekend, and didn’t complain a bit that I was gone so much.

Church yesterday was also amazing. There were several beautiful musical numbers, and the lessons were all superb. Even though I was tired and would have rather be in bed, I was spiritually fed. The Easter messages were simply wonderful. After church we rushed to get things ready, then ran off to my parents’ house for an Easter dinner. Both my sisters were there with their families, as well as Mom and Dad and my Aunt Sandra and her husband, Walt. The dinner was great, as was the company. Between us we had 16 kids there to hunt for eggs and it was just fun to all be together.

So, although it was the busiest of weekends, it was wonderful. I feel far more blessed than I deserve!

A spring in my step

This is my absolute favorite season of the year. The tulips are just starting to bloom, the grass has just been cut for the first time, and Easter is just around the corner. Yes, there’s a lot of work to be done, but it’s not too hot to go out and do some weed pulling. It’s also perfect weather for soccer, and Easter egg hunts.  The weather is perfect!

I’ve been given the opportunity to perform with the Tabernacle Choir this weekend. They are doing their first concert in the newly remodeled and rededicated Tabernacle. Last night I, along with 5 others from the bell choir rehearsed our tiny part in the program. Now, when I say time, I’m not exaggerating. I literally ring my bells 8 times. So, no, it’s not something that is really critical for the program, but the effect adds a lot to the song. The neatest part was just wandering around the new Tabernacle. There are new offices, new dressing rooms, and a new music room. Eventually we will have a place where we rehearse in that building, too. While sitting in Craig Jessop’s (the director of the Tab Choir) office to learn this little part of the song, I thought, “Wow! I’m in the Tabernacle sitting in Craig Jessop’s office. How cool is that?” After the song we participated in, Craig came and shook all of our hands and thanked us for coming and giving of our time to help out with the choir’s program.  So, although it will make for a very busy weekend and a lot of time away from home, it’s a great experience.

Wow, that was a long day

Today was a long day. I got up at 5:30 (I had actually been woken up around 5, when John climbed into bed with me, but he thankfully went back to sleep. But since he was sleeping in my bed, I had to get dressed in the dark, and be very very quiet or risk waking him up again, and then not being able to get out of the house.) and left the house at 6:15 so I could meet my carpool at 6:30.
We got up to the conference center by 7, changed and were ready to rehearse at 7:30. We went through our song a few times, rehearsed with the choir, then waited. We did the run through, then the actual broadcast. You probably didn’t see it, but if you did, you would have seen a glimpse of me and heard us ring for one song.

Then we did the whole thing in reverse. Walk over to the tabernacle, change, go back to the parking lot, drive home. I got home around 11:15, and didn’t go to church. Instead I loaded some dishes, got some chicken out of the freezer, got some dinner cooking in the crock pot and watched a little tv. I made lunch for the family and had a 20 minute nap. Then the kids came home and smothered me with luvs and attention for an hour, when I had to leave again at 3:15. Again. Meet the carpool at 3:30, etc. etc. Only this time I was driving. At 4:30 we were dressed and ready. This time we rehearsed a different song for the fireside tonight. We ran though it a couple of times, then waited for the program to start so we could ring our one song. Luckily, someone had brought a new Cranium card game and we had fun playing that while we waited back stage. At 6:00, we were up in the loft, ready for our song. It was the first song of the program, so we were able to play that song, come back down, put away the bells and leave. I got home at around 7:15. So, I was gone for 9 hours today and performed two songs.

Not that I’m complaining or anything, I’m just tired.

Happy New Year.

Tomorrow we will discuss our resolutions and goals and what fun we’re going to have in the year 2007. Tonight, I’m going to try to get some kids to bed and then I’m hitting the hay myself. I will not be staying up until Midnight if I can help it, because I’m tired.

Ring, Christmas Bells

Last night’s concert was fantastic. We were all so nervous to perform in the huge conference center, knowing that thousands of people could be there, but we had rehearsed and gone over everything so many times, so it was time to “enjoy the moment”. It was quite an experience. We were told afterward that there were about 12 thousand people in the audience–wow. Unlike last year’s Christmas concert, where there was an unfortunate Sleighride incident, we pulled it off and there were no song slaughterings. Of course we made some mistakes–there will always be mistakes–but none so horrible that the song suffered. I had a couple of spots where I got my bells all switched and in the wrong spots and couldn’t play for a couple of measures while I got myself reorganized. But I did not panic. I’m sure I wasn’t smiling the whole time, but I tried to “have a pleasant look on my face” instead of looking all stressed and ready to bolt at any moment.

My family enjoyed it, and all wanted to tell me what their favorite songs were. Megan last night in her prayer said, “And thank you that mom and her team could play such lovely music…” I didn’t know I had a “team”, but it’s a nice thought.

Now I’m done with bells until after Christmas. Since we’re going to Cancun and I would miss a couple of performances with the Tab Choir, I had a sub learn my part for all those songs. So, the next week for me will be a lot easier. I’ll go and watch the concert instead of rehearsing for two nights and performing for 3 more. It’s bittersweet, because I want to be ringing with them, but I’ll be going to Cancun!

Now that the concert is over I can finish the Christmas shopping (i’m seriously pretty much done–I just have to help the kids find things to give to each other and mom and dad), wrap everything, get the neighbor gifts done, go to a few parties, pick out and wrap the teacher gifts, help the kids with their programs and shows, organize the schedule for the babysitters, and clean my house and pack. That’s do-able, right? And I’ll start right after I take a shower.

Music and the Spoken Word

Thanks to everyone who watched Music and the Spoken Word and saw me. Honestly, how could you not see me. I was on camera a lot! Which was kind of a surprise. After we had finished the third song, I sat down and I thought, “I don’t think I smiled that whole time, I was so nervous.” I made a mistake in the first song, so that threw my confidence off, and then rest of the time, instead of enjoying the moment, I was just hoping to hurry and get it over with before I made another mistake. So, although I wasn’t hugely smiling, I at least wasn’t scowling, and I’m relieved.

I’ve had several people from church comment on how they saw me and how great the program was, which is always nice to hear. The best comment was this morning as I was going to a new aerobics class we’re starting up at the church. I walk in, and Ella, the little 3 year old daughter of one of my friends in the ward said to me, “You were on the movie at our house!” Wow! I was floored by her recognition and great memory.

If you’ve not been to an event in the conference center yet, you simply need to go. It’s so amazing! The music sound so incredible when you are actually there, and can see the grandeur that is the choir. I’m still in awe that they let me and and our little group perform with them. We are thrilled to be there, and nervous as heck. I mean, it’s the Mormon Tabernacle Choir, for heaven’s sake!

If you didn’t get to see it and still want to,
there is a replay tomorrow (Wednesday) at 11:30 am on BYUTV. If you don’t get BYUTV, or if you are stuck at work, you can watch on their live internet stream: www.byutv.org/streaming/, at the same time.

A Concert Weekend

Wow! I’m sorry I haven’t written anything, really I am. Did you miss me? (heads nodding up and down). Well, I missed you, too.

I was extremely busy this weekend and just didn’t have the time or energy to put down all that I was thinking, but I’ll try to let you know now.

Wednesday through Saturday I’ve been at the Conference Center every night, with rehearsals, dress rehearsals and concerts. I added it up, and with driving time, I spent almost 25 hours doing the bell thing this week. So, yes, I’m pretty tired.

But aside from absolutely tiring, it was wonderful and exilerating. Really! To be playing songs we love, with people who we love, is really amazing. Some of the songs were the same ones we did for our first concert in September of last year, and we’ve improved 100%. I wish I could say we played every song perfectly each time, but I can’t. We had a little disaster of sorts when a song completely fell apart on Saturday night–what in the world?– but somehow we picked it back up and carried on. I guess we needed something to laugh about.

Thursday night was a dress rehearsal for friends and families, and Ryan is awesome–he brought all 5 kids! When it was over and my bell friends saw Ryan sitting there with all the yahoos on his lap or around him, they all said, “Wow! Your kids were so good!” I guess we didn’t notice Ryan taking John outside for a time-out, nor did we know that John had somehow cut his head climbing under a chair (Ryan’s not sure how it happened, since John didn’t cry, but thinks it was from crawling under a chair–what?) and had a big bloody gash on his head when I went and saw them after the concert. But I thought the kids did great, and they lasted through the whole thing. Ryan, brave soul that he is, said, “Please don’t ask me to bring all the kids to one of these things ever again.” I won’t.

They were taping this one for BYU to use, so Saturday afternoon we did some more taping in the afternoon to clean up any areas where there were mistakes, and to get close ups, I guess. Imagine spending two hours on your feet playing bells, wearing black double sleeved dresses that do NOT breathe (and tuxes for the men) with the lights glaring on you while you play bells. And not just play, but play perfectly, if you don’t mind. And we’ll have these big cameras on big booms swooping around to capture your every move. Don’t look at that camera, you idiot! Look at the director! Oh, and smile like you are having the time of your life. What? You’ve got sweat dripping down your back? Well, you’d better smile about it. It was absolutely exhausting! My back was killing me, my dress was smelling like sweat (oh how pleasant!), my feet were killing me, and yes, I was smiling. Or I thought I was smiling. It probably looked like some contorted sneer by the time it was over, but I really tried to smile. I can hope that they got enough good tape that they can edit it to look like we played each song perfectly. In talking to the director after it was over, I asked him to please do his best to make us look and sound good (and 10 pounds skinnier, please.)

Finally, when he could tell that we were “fatigued”, we took a break to “powder” and get a drink, then came back for another half hour of taping. Thankfully they let us go, then. We got to relax, have dinner, let our hair down and have a little bit of relaxing time before our last concert. We’ve got two people leaving us to go on to bigger and better things (one’s joining the Mormon Tabernacle Choir, and one’s getting married and moving away to go to school), so we had a cake and cards for them. We will miss them.

All in all I am pleased with our performances. Yes, there were mistakes, yes there were rough spots, but I did my best. I made it through the really scary and hard songs without falling apart, and hopefully I did it with a smile on my face.

Wow!

For the past 6 days I’ve been heavily involved with the Tabernacle Choir Christmas Concerts, and I just have to say “WOW!” It was an awesome experience! You can’t imagine the countless hours of preparation that goes into one of those concerts, from the elaborate stage decorations, to the dancers, soloists (Renee Fleming was absolutely Amazing!) and guest artists (Claire Bloom was also Incredible), all the songs the choir learns, some at the last minute because they are still being written, and all the people behind the scenes. There must be at least 100 support people behind the scenes driving carts around, talking into their walkie-talkies, stage managers telling you when to go on, camera and sound men, make-up artists, etc.

And the whole thing was absolutely astounding how wonderfully it came together. I’m extremly grateful that I could be involved in that experience. Friday night when I looked out I saw President Hinckley and Thomas S. Monson sitting in the front row–if that doesn’t make you want to do your best, I don’t know what does. And Sunday morning after the broadcast and mini concert, President Hinckley and President Faust came up to the stage and thanked the guest artists for coming (they waive their fees and donate their time) and invited them back anytime. It was Craig Jessop’s birthday, so he led the audience in singing “Happy Birthday” to him, and wished us all a Merry Christmas. At the end, he said, “Now we’ll sing ‘God be with you till we meet again’ and hope that it happens,” and waved as he left the stage. ‘

When we left the stage and went to go put our bells away, there was a bunch of security because President Hinckley was just getting into a cart. President Faust was 5 feet from me, and said “Good job” right to me. Wow! It’s not every day, or, well, ever, that I’m standing by the prophet. It was a real thrill.

I’m especially thankful for Ryan. He (and a couple of babysitters) watched the kids for so many hours this week so I could be at rehearsal, and all those concerts. He really is wonderful! He didn’t even get to see the concert because we had a sick child over the weekend, and didn’t feel comfortable leaving him with a babysitter. So, even though it was a very tough, tiring, long week, it was extremely rewarding and I feel so lucky to have been a part of it.

Angel Song

Just so you know

Ok, we got about 15 inches of snow on Tuesday, and it was very messy. The roads to Salt Lake were not that great at 4:30 pm, either, and it took me 2 hours to get to the conference center that night. Ugh!

Tonight is our first concert with the Tab Choir. I’m in 4 numbers. Cool, except that they are all supposed to be memorized. Have you ever tried memorizing Bell music? 32 measures until we come in, then E-D-E-rest E-D-E rest 8 measures, then D5 and D6 together, etc. Each song we are holding different bells, so we have to put them all back and get new ones every time, we come in from different places each time, and to top it off we’re supposed to be smiling! The past two nights have been 4-5 hour rehearsals, and we’re all pretty exhausted.

I’ve got a cold and I’m popping euchenachia, zinc and vitamin C, along with Cold-eez and whatever else I think might help. So, needless to say, I’m a little bit nervous about tonight. I’m going off to study the new song that was just transposed yesterday because apparantly the soloist wanted it in a higher key.

Send good thoughts my way–please!

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