The Trials of a Busy Mom

Author: Superpaige (Page 105 of 180)

I feel fine. I think I’ll go for a walk. I feel happy!

First of all, thank you to all of you who gave advice on our teenager’s school issues. I really appreciate it.

This morning, we have had a few issues with my other son, who is four. He came into our room at his usual 7:00, and was complaining that his side hurt. I helped him into bed with me, and asked him where it hurt. His left side. He was breathing heavily, and kind of writhing around. I asked him if he had hurt it or bonked it or fallen down or anything. No. I asked Ryan (who was home with the kids last night) if he remembered if John had hurt himself. No. I’m trying to figure out if his stomach feels yucky, or if it’s just his side, but I’m not getting too much information from him. He keeps saying “it’s the twist”, and I wonder if perhaps he could have a sore muscle.

I got up to use the bathroom, and asked him if he wanted to go down for breakfast. “No,” he said softly. This is when I knew that something was WRONG. This is my kid who wants breakfast immediately, and sometimes eats two or three breakfasts in a morning. I took him down stairs, and offered him the nectar of the Gods… a Capri Sun. He refused, saying he wasn’t thirsty. I was starting to panic, now, because something must be terribly wrong. We called our neighbor, who is a doctor, but he had already left for work. I called our pediatrician, but they didn’t have anyone in the office yet. I did a quick google search for “pain left side” and got this here helpful chart which lists a bunch of possible reasons for pain on the left side–all of them requiring you to call 911 or go to the emergency room immediately. That was not comforting at all.

I decided I’d better quickly get dressed, so I could whisk him off to the doctor’s office as soon as they opened. So I threw some clothes on and made myself 1/2 way presentable and came back downstairs to check on him. “How are you feeling, bud?” I asked nervously, “do you want some breakfast?”
“I feel ok,” he said, ” can I have a yogurt after this show?”
What? You feel fine? He was sitting up, and after the show he got up and asked for his juice box and yogurt. So, I fed him his breakfast, and then he was running around like a normal kid.
“Does your side not hurt anymore?” I asked.
“No, it’s gone,” he said.
How is this possible? He’s excited about going to his sports class and is happily watching tv right now.

I’m very relived that he’s feeling better, but I am just wondering what in the world was causing the pain, and is it going to come back? I think it was all part of a well calculated plan to keep me from going to yoga today.

Frustrated–please help!

I’m frustrated with my 13 year old. He is a smart kid but he just doesn’t remember to turn his assignments in. I sometimes wonder if he’d remember his right arm if it weren’t attached. He missed a few days of school to go on a trip with my parents, and since then it’s been a struggle to catch up. I feel like all I do is nag and nag and nag and get on his case about his grades, and yesterday I really lost my temper and yelled at him. I felt like a horrible mother, he felt like a horrible kid, we all felt horrible!

I need some suggestions on how I can help him be responsible for his own work, and get it all turned in ON TIME. One friend suggested I go to school in my pajamas with him and sit by him during all his classes and remind him to write things down or turn things in. My husband told him about a friend of his whose son got bad grades, and then was his dad’s slave for the summer. While these are great ideas, they seem a little bit drastic to me.

So I would like your suggestions or things that have worked with your teenage boys.

Thank you in advance.

I’m linking in with Shannon’s Works for me Wednesday where lots of people are asking questions today.

Is it winter, or is it spring?

For quite some time our house has looked like this:
house

There have been snowmen all around, since we’ve had so much snow. This one is my favorite, though. I think he started out upright, but with the wind and a little bit of sunshine, he quickly looked like this:

snowman

The large wreath, which I LOVE at Christmastime, was getting to be a little bit out of place towards the end of February. This past week we’ve finally had a taste of spring, with the temperatures creeping up to the 50’s. The snow was mostly melted and the kids were so happy they could play outside and jump on the tramp, even if it was still kind of cold. Saturday was finally the day. The day that it wasn’t supposed to be cold or rainy, with all the snow melted from the roof and from the ground by the house. The day that my dear husband would take down the wreath and the Christmas lights. March 1st. It’s a little long to have the Christmas lights up, in my opinion, but we were not alone in our lateness. A few of our neighbors (especially those with two story houses) also had their lights up this long.

While he was up there he took these pictures. Why he had the camera with him on the roof, I’m not sure, but I guess he was following that scout motto….”be prepared.” wreath
wreath 2 wreath 3 wreath 4

It seems this little bird had been living in our wreath for a while, and was a little bit confused about where his home was going. He flew off to a neighbor’s pine tree, so I hope he’s enjoying his new little home.

It’s a good thing he got the lights down early in the day, because later in the afternoon the storm came through, dropping the temperature to about 30 degrees and the wind really picked up. I saw on the news that we had 73 mile per hour winds going on here for a while. We did lose a tricycle, which is now across the street, but no damage to the house or anything. A few of the neighbors lost shingles or garbage cans. Then the snow came, and it feels like winter again. Darn. I guess we’ll have to wait it out for a few more weeks until it really begins to be spring.

Win it

You know that I have an affinity for all things free, and contests of any kind, right? And you know that ONE DAY I WILL WIN A CAR, right? Well, I’m going to. Someday. I can’t say when, but I WILL. Positive thinking, right? Well, I want to give you the heads up on a little contest that’s going on where you, too, could possibly win a new car. A local radio station, 101.9 KENZ is asking you to guess when they will play their millionth song. It could play anytime between now and memorial day. The closest guess wins a Mazda Miata. I’ve already entered my guess, and really folks, it’s just a guess. I have no scientific way to calculate the day the song will be played, although I asked my genius husband to figure it out for me. He declined. But if it’s just a guess, then you might as well enter, right? Because I would LOVE to win, but if I didn’t win, I would love for YOU to win. Then you could drive me around and run my errands with me.

So, to enter, just go here.

And really, I don’t think you have to be a local resident to win. If you live somewhere far away and you should happen to win, then I’d be HAPPY to accept your prize for you until you can get yourself to Utah to pick it up.

And on a much smaller scale, I’m hosting my own little contest. I’ve been at this blogging thing for a while, and I’m coming up on my 2000th comment. So why not have a reward for you, the commenters? That’s right, folks, prizes!! Yes, you could say I’m just bribing you a to comment frequently, or you could just look at it as another contest. What’s the prize?

I’ve looked into my bag of tricks, and so far I’ve come up with:
–my favorite little IKEA spatula
spatula
Yes, it’s a cheap little spatula set, and that’s probably why I love them so much. That and they are just the right size for your scooping needs.

–A $10 Toys R Us gift card,
–Two free Kids’ Meals at TGI Fridays
–Two Tickets to the Hale Center Theater in Orem (if you aren’t local, then I’ll find something else for you)
–An entree and soft drink from the California Pizza Kitchen
–Two free kids meals to Mimi’s Cafe
–a book. I don’t know which book, but I’ll find something

And whatever else I feel like throwing in.

So, go forth and comment, and when we reach comment number 2000, confetti will come out of the screen, balloons will fall from the sky, and prizes will be awarded! Ok, I probably can’t make confetti come out of your screen OR balloons fall from the sky, but there WILL be prizes.

From the mouth of a four year old.

John (who came into my bathroom while I was drying my hair): Mom! Mom! The tv went to all blue! You need to fix it!

Me: Because I am SuperMom and I can fix anything, right?

John: No.

Me (not letting this go): Come on, say, it. Say, ‘you’re supermom!’

John: You’re not supermom. It’s ‘superDOG’, Mom.

Me (feeling a bit disgruntled at the lack of respect my son is showing me): But I’m the superMOM, right?

John: Nope.

Thanks a lot, kid. See if I drive your carpool on the fieldtrip today.

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Rainy Days and Mondays?

Today, after cleaning my house and feeding my children a dinner of “let’s eat what we find in the fridge or freezer”, I watched Music of the Heart. It was probably on Lifetime or O or some other sappy channel weeks and weeks ago, and I remembered that it had looked interesting and I recorded it.

Described in the opening credits as being ‘inspired by a documentary’, the film opens with Roberta having been deserted by her husband and feeling devastated and almost suicidal. Encouraged by her mother, she attempts to rebuild her life and a friend recommends her to the head teacher of a school in the tough New York area of East Harlem. Despite a degree in music education, she has little experience in actual music teaching, but she’s taken on as a substitute violin teacher. With a combination of toughness and determination, she manages to inspire a group of kids, and their initially very skeptical parents. The program slowly develops and attracts publicity.

As I was watching this movie, I got choked up more than once. Tears were escaping my eyes. But then my children needed me, so I pushed pause and went to go and look after them. When I came back and watched it again, the same thing happened again.

Ten years later, the string program is still running successfully, but suddenly the school budget is cut and Roberta is out of a job. Determined to fight the cuts, she enlists the support of former pupils, parents and teachers and plans a grand fund-raising concert ‘Fiddlefest’, to raise money so that the program can continue. But with a few weeks to go and all participants furiously rehearsing, they lose the venue. Fortunately,the husband of a publicist friend is a violinist in a string quartet, and he enlists the support of other well-known musicians, including Isaac Stern and Itzhak Perlman. They arrange for the concert to be mounted at Carnegie Hall. Other famous musicians join in the performance, which is a resounding success.

As I watched those kids practice for their upcoming benefit concert, with great obstacles keep coming up, there I go crying again. It’s not like they aren’t going to succeed, for heaven’s sake. The movie is actually quite predictable, but there I am, wiping away my tears. I mean, MERCIFUL HEAVENS– WHAT IF MERYL STREEP DOESN’T RAISE ENOUGH MONEY AND THEY HAVE TO CUT HER PROGRAM? It would be Mr. Holland’s Opus all over again!

There’s obviously something wrong with me. I cry over everything. Really. All they have to do is show a picture of a puppy and play some music and I’ll practically burst into tears! Remember those etoys commercials? The ones where they played IZ’s “Somewhere over the Rainbow”? Those made me cry every time.

Of course, this is the song they played on ER when Dr. Greene died, too, so I almost ALWAYS cry when I hear this song, now.

Now, if you’ll excuse me, I’m off to watch Minnesota Cuke and the search for the magic hairbrush or something like that. Don’t worry, I’ll have my Kleenex ready.

Greetings from the Land of Random

While braiding Jenna’s hair this morning, the radio was on, and Donny Osmond did his little “8 track play back”. Among other things, he said that the Eagles released their hit “Hotel California” on this date back in 1970- something. I just had to chuckle, since just this very morning at Curves, I actually asked Chris, the circuit coach, if she could skip that song when it came on. I’ve never asked them to skip over a particular song. Usually I just keep on working out and try to ignore the song if it’s one I don’t like. But something came over me this morning, and I boldly asked if she could skip that song. “What? Hotel California?” She asked, “you don’t like that song?”

No, I don’t really care for that song, ok? Add that one to the list of songs Paige avoids. She actually went in the back and skipped to the next Eagles song. Thank you, Chris!

But then I thought it was really funny that Donny would mention that same song not an hour later. Maybe there is something to that Hotel California that I’m just not appreciating. Probably not.

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Last night for Family Home Evening we decided to all go to the library.
Since there is no library in our town, we have to travel about 20 minutes to our old neighborhood to go to the library. It’s not really on the way to anything, and not convenient, so we don’t go very much in the winter. As we were getting ready, I told Megan that she could still give us her “lesson” for FHE, since she was on lesson this week. So, in the car, she gave her super condensed lesson, which was to read 1 Nephi 3:7. Do we all have that one memorized? ‘I will go and do the things which the Lord commanded’, and then we sang the song Nephi’s courage. In the car.
It about drove Ryan crazy (he’s a real big supporter of “quiet in the car”), and after we sang that song, he said, “You know, kids, since we’re in the car, you don’t really need to be extra obnoxious.”
I had to chime in with a comment after that one. “Just the regular amount of obnoxiousness will be fine, thank you.”
And then John, behind us in the middle seat, pipes up with, “To the Library!”
They LOVE going to the library. You’d think I was taking them to a water park or something. Maybe for spring break, I’ll say, “We can’t afford to go to Disneyland like your friends are doing, but……..we get to go….to the LIBRARY! WOO-HOO!” Or maybe not.

They all enjoyed picking out books at the library. For Ryan, they had free Wi-Fi. Wow. So he wasn’t grumpy. I even splurged and got a few movies. As I was looking for movies, I wanted to find Raiders of the Lost Ark. It’s been years since I’ve seen that movie and I realized my kids haven’t seen it at all. Can you believe it? My kids have NOT yet seen Raiders. What an unfit mother I am. (Wow, it says on Amazon that they have used copies for one cent! But VHS. Who watches VHS these days. Do any of you have this movie and you’re tired of it and just want to mail it to me? Anyone?) Well, they didn’t have that at the library, and we had to get this one instead. It’s not quite gonna do it for me, but the kids will enjoy it.

What’s for dinner?

For dinner on Sunday I made this Chicken curry with sweet potatoes and coconut rice. There’s pictures on that link, and the whole recipe. It was SO GOOD! My husband even said it was “restaurant quality”. The rice was yummy, the sweet potatoes delicious and the chicken not too currylicious. With the kids it was hit and miss, with some of them liking it and some of them not. But it’s impossible to please everyone around here. Natalie said she might like it if there weren’t so many flavors. Too many FLAVORS, huh? Well, excuse me. The only problem with this recipe was the smells that it left on my hands. Garlic, onion and curry…before church? Not such a good idea. All through church I’m smelling my hands and hoping the nobody else can smell what I just threw in the crockpot for dinner. Hand washing–doesn’t help. Lotion–not really covering it up. And my house still smells like curry. I guess that’s what you get.

And one of my new favorites is this Greek Pasta Dish

pasta
12 ounces penne (whole wheat)
2 tablespoons olive oil, extra virgin
2 tablespoons pine nuts
5 cloves garlic, minced
1 (10 ounce) package frozen spinach, chopped, thawed and drained
4 large plum tomatoes, chopped
½ cup fat free cottage cheese
4 ounces feta cheese
Jar of calamata olives
Salt Pepper

Cook pasta according to package directions.
Drain and set aside. Cover and keep warm.

Sauté garlic in 1 tablespoon olive oil. Add pine nuts and stir until lightly golden, about 5 minutes. Stir in spinach and tomatoes and cook until just heated though. Do not over cook.
Drain the cottage cheese in a strainer, and pour into a small bowl. Add the feta cheese. Using a pastry blender, combine cheeses together.

To serve, place the warm pasta in a bowl. Drizzle with remaining olive oil. Toss until well coated.
Add the spinach mixture and toss.
Finally add the feta cheese mixture.
Salt and pepper to taste.
Top with a handful olives.

Nutrition Information (per serving): 400 calories. 15 grams fat, 17 mg cholesterol Adapted from: Healthy Homestyle Cooking 1994

I didn’t have pine nuts or those olives, and I added some bacon bits, but it’s delicious! And it saves well, too, so it’s good for a nice lunch the next day. Again, some of the kids don’t like it, but they can just eat the noodles plain, instead of with all that “stuff” on it, right?

Oh, and I made that cheesecake again, but with Splenda instead of sugar. It has kind of a weird taste, darn it. So, there you have it. Some ideas for dinner this week. Let me know if you try them.

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